Authentic Self — I help people find themselves again

Belper, Derbyshire  ·  Authentic Self

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I help people
find themselves again.

I work with people who feel a bit lost, overwhelmed or disconnected, or who simply don't know what's next. I give you time and a safe space to explore where you are, alongside practical tools and the Wayfinder approach, so you can begin to help yourself and find your own way forward.

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Based in Belper, Derbyshire. Some sessions are also available remotely.

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Sometimes life gets loud

Something has changed. Or something that used to fit doesn't any more.

Maybe a relationship has ended, work has stopped making sense, or you've spent so long keeping everything going that you've lost track of what you actually want.

There's advice everywhere, from friends, family and the internet. Somehow it all makes it harder to hear yourself.

Sometimes you have people around you, but nobody you can really say this to. Here, you don't need to perform your life.

"Maybe you don't need another answer. Maybe you need enough quiet to hear what you already know."

When you don't quite know what you need

You don't have to arrive knowing which therapy, approach or answer you're looking for.

Sometimes you just know that something feels different.

Life has become too noisy.

Something has changed.

You're carrying too much.

You've lost touch with what you need.

Or perhaps nothing is obviously wrong, but you know you need somewhere to stop and hear yourself again.

That's often where our work begins.

Not with choosing a tool.

With understanding where you are now.

From there, we can explore what might actually support you — whether that's conversation, reflection, sound, Reiki, gentle CBT-informed approaches, spiritual exploration or simply enough space to notice what is already there.

Person first. Tool second.

Before I reach for a tool,
I listen.

Everyone arrives somewhere different, so I don't start with a set programme. I start by listening: to where you are, what's changed and what feels unclear.

Then I draw on different tools from my training, experience and spiritual practice to help you see things differently, hear yourself more clearly and work out what your next step might be. That might be a conversation, some CBT-informed reflection, meditation, sound or Reiki.

I call this the Wayfinder approach. I'm not the voice that tells you which path to take. I'm the voice that asks the questions that might help you hear your own.

Because ultimately, the Wayfinder is you.

You don't have to see the whole path

Sometimes clarity isn't knowing exactly where you're going.

It might be understanding where you are now.

Feeling a little calmer.

Hearing yourself more clearly.

Or being able to see just enough of the path to take your next step.

I am not lost. I am finding.

This is the thinking at the heart of Wayfinder.

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Where are you right now?

Personal support

For when you feel lost, overwhelmed or disconnected, you're standing at a crossroads, or you simply want some space to reconnect with yourself.

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Professional support: Business Mentoring

Structure for the Spiritually Called.

For heart-led and value-based business owners and managers building something grounded and sustainable, with no compromise between the sacred and the practical.

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Ways to work with me

Different tools for different moments. I start with where you are, then help you find what fits.

01

Wayfinder 1:1

Time and space to talk through where you are, in person or online, with the right tools brought in only when they're useful.

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02

Spiritual Counselling & Life Coaching

Somewhere to speak freely and be heard, with room for the practical parts of life and the spiritual parts too.

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03

Sound Therapy & Sound Baths

More than lying down and listening: time to arrive, a guided meditation, the sound itself, then space to settle before you head back into life.

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04

Reiki

A quiet, unhurried hour to rest and settle, in person in Belper or at a distance, wherever you are.

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05

Tuning Fork Therapy

A focused one-to-one session in Belper using weighted and unweighted therapeutic tuning forks.

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06

Business Mentoring

Shape your offer, pricing, boundaries and client journey so your business feels grounded, sustainable and true to why you started.

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Reiki Infused Sound Bath

A small, monthly sound bath with time to arrive, a guided meditation, sound infused with Reiki, and space to settle afterwards.

Monthly  ·  up to 6 guests  ·  £19.99

Wayfinder Reset

A small-group guided reset combining reflection, meditation, sound and space to pause, helping you quieten the noise, reconnect with yourself and begin to see your next step.

About 80–90 minutes  ·  £27.50 inc. VAT

The listening came first

Chris Armstrong, founder of Authentic Self, Belper

For more than ten years I ran my own salon, and people trusted me with far more than their hair. I saw people marry, divorce, change jobs, lose people and start again.

Eventually I realised that if people were going to trust me with those parts of themselves, I wanted to know how to support them properly. I didn't want to tell anyone what I'd do in their shoes. I wanted to listen well, ask better questions and have useful tools to draw on. That's what led me to train.

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The caring and listening came first. The qualifications came because I wanted to be better equipped for the responsibility people were already trusting me with.

I don't pretend to have all the answers. I'm honest, I'm genuine and I tend to wear my heart where you can see it.

Chris

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My training spans sound therapy, Reiki, spiritual counselling and life coaching, counselling skills and business mentoring, alongside continued professional development across complementary and spiritual practice. I am professionally insured through Balens.

Real journeys.
Real results.

"I wasn't new to the spiritual world but I found myself at a loss within my work & home life. Chris was able to help me find clear intentions and set a firm path towards balance."
Joan H.  ·  Sound Bath Guest
"I am extremely happy that I chose the business package. I now look very knowledgeable and professional. I've already seen a real take-up in trade."
Alice D.  ·  Mentoring client
"I am delighted with the outstanding progress I've made already in just week 3! Thank you so much, I will definitely recommend Kit to others."
Drew A.  ·  Spiritual Life Coaching

Individual experiences. Everyone's path is different.

You don't have to
arrive polished.

You just have to arrive willing to be real. If something here sounds like where you are, the next step can be small.

Authentic Self · Belper, Derbyshire, England · Some sessions are also available remotely.

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